it is very difficult to compare 10,000k to 20,000k. Each 10,000k brand looks different, and each 20,000k brand looks different. It also depends on whether you are going for a "white" MH that you are going to add actinics to, or whether you aren't going to have actinics. Personally, I like a bluer tint from my MH, but not as blue/violet as a 20,000k...especially the Radium which is very blue, almost violet. Plus, 20,000k's don't usually have the longevity of color stabilization as some of the higher kelvins.
SO, personally, I prefer the 14,000k lamps. They are generally a nice balance between blue and white. I am IN LOVE with my new 14,000k 150 watt Phoenix.
Here is a spectrograph of a Aquaconnect 14,000k (believed to be the same manufacturer of the Phoenix), and the 20,000k Radium...
You can see the "Phoenix" in red and it has a higher spike in the "blue" 450nm range, as well as the "violet" 415-420nm range. It seems to be balanced out by the higher spike in the "yellow" 540nm range... overall GREAT color from the Phoenix. I cant see myself buying a different lamp in the future. It starts out almost too blue, but already in 3 days it has burned in nicely and is great.
If you are set on a 10,000k lamp, the Aqualine Buschke is the less "yellowish" of them.
HTH,
Jesse