I think I have been patient enough! Beginning of October I sent a package of GSP, shrooms, caulpra & critters to Memphis in Chicago at my expense, everything was free to him, he just had to reimburse me 5-10 of the shipping expense. Not only that, but he said that he would go to his LFS and pick me up a coral so I padded the package with a 20 dollar bill to boot, so have something come back in my thermos. He received his package the first week in October, all in good health, along with my money. I have asked for my money back if nothing else, told him I would take a loss on the thermos and my shipping expense (another 20.00), and I can't even get that from him!!! I know that things come up in our day to day lives, but is it so much to ask to stick a 20 in and envelope and put it in the mail? Just frustrated and wanted to give everyone a heads up to be leary of a trade with this person. Does anyone think that I'm just not being patient enough here?